Why do Two People of Opposite Sex come Together..? Its significant that it’s the ‘Looks’ that matter the most in the First Glance succeeded by Nature and Positiveness. Consider this that every Human Being has its AURA which is Divine and wholesome. Some people get attracted because of this Aura, regardless of Cast, Color or Creed. Then why is it so that after a period of time the aura fades out and the light of Positiveness diminishes. It is because of your Expectations forgetting the very essence of GIVE and TAKE. Remember it is always what you SOW is what you REAP. The ideology is very simple, to make a relationship work see your Partner as a gift of God symbolizing as a Present of Happiness. The more you indulge with all your soul n heart the more vibrant it becomes and creates a Positive Aura.
The following TEN COMMANDMENTS have been decisive and incisive for every individual who wish to make their Relationship work for all times to come. Both Men and Women have certain dynamics which work as per the Law of Attraction. A Man wants his woman to look attractive, exquisite dress sense, understanding and above all compatible in all situations while a Woman prefers her partner to be humble, polite, understanding, caring and above all jovial and who treats his woman like a princess. As emotions drive women, their relationships have an active emotional component. Above all She prefers him to be more of a FRIEND than a HUSBAND because this would bring in more compatible sync between the Two.
1. Try not to Focus on TRIFLE ISSUES
These are issues which don’t have any meaning. Imagine if you take out the ‘T’ from it – it is only RIFLE set on each other EGO’s which tears the relationship apart. Always remember that these trivial issues are manifestation of Larger Problems, so its better to talk it over with your Partner and don’t let is set base in your Heart.
These are issues which don’t have any meaning. Imagine if you take out the ‘T’ from it – it is only RIFLE set on each other EGO’s which tears the relationship apart. Always remember that these trivial issues are manifestation of Larger Problems, so its better to talk it over with your Partner and don’t let is set base in your Heart.
2. Share your THOUGHTS
Always share your Thought Process / Your Fears / Your Passions/ Hopes/ Aspirations with your Partner so that He / She is aware of your feelings and assess you in the same manner.
3. Joint Decision over Financial Issues
The thumb rule is very simple: Determine a figurative amount till its Limit ends i.e. 10k, 20k, 50k, beyond which a joint decision has to come forth.
Set a Saving Goal Target. Both the partners should pool in the kitty and save for the rainy day, which should ideally result in rewarding each other every quarter over a Candle Lit Dinner/ Vacation / Gift etc.
Apply for a Joint credit card while building up your credit limit together & respect Sharing is Caring.
Recognize that all Relationships have Ups and Downs just like a Share Market so better Ride out of the Down Times.
4. Set Goals in a Relationship
There is a Saying “When you are not sure which Harbor you are aiming for, No Wind is the Right Wind”. The Boat of Marriage always has its Tides on the Sea of Marriage. Usually Gust of ROMANCE wears off when there is Lack of Communication because by the time you realize the fact it sabotages the Health of a Relationship.
5. Show LOVE and AFFECTION Daily
Kiss / Cuddle/ Behave Like a Child Pamper your Partner/ Appreciate His/ Her Good Habits / Ignore Follies/ Appreciate his/her positive Attitude. Appreciate and make it Public. When you say ‘I LOVE YOU’ doesn’t make much sense till you do things which your Partner Values
6. Make your Partner a PRIORITY
Be More of a Friend than a Husband / Wife with each other to bring in more Closeness. This is the crux of a Relationship because of it you are in the Relationship in the First Place.
7. Be Friendly to your Partner
Treat your Partner as a Most Trusted Friend. Share your Issues / Upsurges / Thoughts / Tensions / Depressions / Secrets / with Him / Her
8. Resolve Arguments Together
It’s the Best Way to get Close to your partner. Remember it should not always be Lose/ Win situation every time. The Harmony of the Relationship always lies in understanding its Musical Notes Well.
9. Show Affection Daily
It should not be always SEX ( Severe Excitement Explosion) on mind because anything which lasts for a few seconds does not give the Rightful Enjoyment. You need to appreciate your partner in public. Saying I – LOVE – YOU – will carry more weight when you do things which your Partner Values.
10. Create an Atmosphere of Caring, Sharing and Belongingness.
It will build up a Trust Factor between both of you and the more your Heart beats for each other the more you will make belief of your Relationship and it shall start showing & glowing on your face.
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